Wayne ([info]wbent1) wrote,
@ 2008-07-22 23:21:00
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Current location:Tampa
Entry tags:a gay nick and nora, davey crockett, estelle getty, red queen

red queens and coonskin caps
Estelle Getty died today. Dawahare's started closing yesterday. more little pieces of personal history fall by the wayside. I saw the  pilot episode oF GG, with the gay housekeeper/cook. And R & I(like everyone else we knew) probably have seen every episode 10 times. Dawahare's was a department store chain in eastern KY which started in my home town. It was the only & I do mean only place that did not sell depression era style clothes. Just what a budding queer needed to make life more pleasant in the most unpleasant of places.

And I was on my way to being such a little queen fashionwise.(I still shudder when I remember when I would only wear red. I was five or six,had red pants & a red striped shirt with a Davey Crockett coonskin cap. even more shudders). Still not sure how or why I butched up (as much as I did). Probably larry's influence, that and there were no non-butch roll models. Then, of course, there is the real reason-laziness. Too much work, too much drama. I'm still not fond of either. It did, however, did much to create my present attitude to money. It was the era before credit cards, and in a small town. Everyone not only knew and was related to everyone else, they knew every single thing about each other. When I wanted something I walked into a store, picked up, waved it at someone and walked out. It was not until years later that I understood someone was actually paying for all that. That was a shock to my system. I still haven't recovered fully.
Side note: Jimmy Dawahare came to Rod's funeral. He was also the one who found all the receipts when Southwest lost Rod's luggage on a direct flight from Ft. Lauderdale to Tampa. I think even R was stunned when they paid $1100. I dont think most people can recover all of their receipts. I don't think even he knew how he pulled it off. He only persued it because he was bored.

 Watched "2 Minutes Later" tonight. R & I always talked about writing a mystery novel involving gay detective and his best friend. We even started plotting it out at one point. The detective was really based on the two of us(or at least our views of ourselves with a little Nick & Nora Charles thrown in), and the best friend was based on Mimi. We always wavered about the best friends sexuality, but were leaning towards bi but butch. We never got beyond the basic plotting though. Rod got distracted working on his one-man show, which he worked on until near the end. The tapes are too painful to watch now, but I haven't come across his notes yet. so many boxes to go through, so little heart to do it.
Heard from Pam Y today. she was just checking in. I bitched about her costing be a $100 because she wasn't at Barnes & Noble which forced me to buy things. I'm grateful I got off so lightly. Promised we would call her & get together very soon.  Damn, this is another one of those rambing nights. time to stop.
 



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